What is the jail term for anal sex, physical abuse and guynapping? The girl is 14 years old, the guy is 55 years old, she was guynapped for 2 days and during these two days beating and given anal sex-you may have heard about this case, yes it is an aboriginal cases but i would like to know the normal jail terms for these offenses without taken into account race
Thanks :D |
for guynapping the tern is between 30 and life
for the other offences he would be looking at five years for the beatings and twenty for the sex its statuary rape on 15 year old |
Is anal sex a form of abuse? i was molested 2 when i was a guy up until my teenage years and I can never feel better about myself, my soul has been destroyed. i am now 23 years old. d abuse went on 4 so long that i can't even remember when it started, i must have been 5 or 4. i wasn't raped, but my brother came 2 my bed naked and touched my private parts. :( i think this is same thing as being raped, u still feel very abused and used :( when i was younger, i didn't talk to any1 about this, only my mom knew this was happening to me, and she used to stay up at nit 2 protect me and she got beaten by my brother bcoz of this. :( my life is ruined and i've wanted to commit suicide many times, but everytime something inside me stopped me from doing that - i didn't want to hurt my family and especially my mom. i don't trust men bcoz even my dad was angry and violent person (although he never abused me), he hit me and threatened me 2 take out my brains :(. I haven’t been able to be a normal person bcoz of my past, I find it hard to socialise and I have few friends. When i was in holiday i met a wonderful guy who impressed me with his kindness and friendliness and he is my boyfriend now and i luv him sincerely. he is the reason that i'm still clinging to life, he is the only person (except my mom) that I trust. We made luv and I felt only luv and not abuse when making luv with him bcoz at 1st he was very gentle and told me that we can stop whenever I want to stop if I feel uncomfortable. But after a few weeks of being with him, one morning while we were in bed together, he did anal sex but this without asking me b4 if I accept him doing this, and that made me sad and depressed bcoz I felt used . I would like to know – is anal sex acceptable in a relationship or a form of abuse? I feel abused when my boyfriend does that bcoz it brings back horrible memories of my brother touching me there. Thank u |
Basically I think the question is one of consent. Any consensual practice between two adults is not abuse.
The problem that you have is that you feel your boyfriend did something that you weren't comfortable without establishing consent first. I feel for you both... chances are he didn't realise this would be such an issue with you, or he felt that you would ask him to stop if you didn't like it. I don't think he broke trust with you, but you feel as if he did. Perhaps this is because of your history of abuse... because the choice was taken from you in the past, you feel that you can't say no, even to someone you love and trust.
Believe me, your boyfriend will be very sad too. I think you should tell him what you're feeling, and why. It doesn't matter what any stranger tells you about what's acceptable or not, or even what your bf tells you is acceptable. If it doesn't feel acceptable to you, you shouldn't do it. I think your bf sounds nice... I'm sure if he realised that it was hurtful and unpleasant for you he would have desisted. If he wouldn't have, he's not a nice guy and did not deserve you.
I think that you should talk to him... I also think you should look at getting some counselling. Even though penetration did not occur between you and your brother, he sexually abused and raped you. I think you're incredibly brave to be living through this, but you could use some help, I think. Your father also sounds abusive, and I think that the fact that your mother didn't help you out of this environment, whatever her reasons, has aggravated the sense that you have no control over your life or your body. Talk through the issues with someone neutral. I know it's embarrassing, and may even feel shaming, but this is NOT your fault.
Tell your boyfriend, if he is worth your time, he will understand. You trust him for a reason, and your right to control over your body and what happens to it is A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT. It's not something you have to ask for. He knows that.
You are very brave... stand strong, and keep living.
I firmly believe you can get through this, you've already come so far, and you have my respect. |
Is eating Fiber One every morning a form of laxative abuse? I'm a 16 year old male and I eat Fiber One cereal and fiber bars to help me have more ease in the bathrooms and to try and avoid anal fissures. Is this a form of laxative abuse? Thanks in advance. |
| not at all! EVERYONE needs fiber in the diet! :) |
How do you relieve the pain of anal sex? I am currently employed as a legal prostitute of Las Vegas, Nevada (and yes, I am a legal prostitute). With the economy as slow as it is, I have increased my prices to make ends meet. Anal sex has always been a service I have provided, however upon the raised prices the customer requests have become more prominent. It was not a regular practice for me previously but I am wondering how to increase my comfort. I have suffered severe pain due to the nightly abuse of my back end. Thank you. |
Although I do not condone prostitution, I do have some advice that you may find useful. When the guy is inserting himself in you, you should be relaxed. If you are tense, then it will hurt a lot. Massaging the anus should help a lot. Also, make sure he uses a lot of lubrication. Make sure that you take a trip to the bathroom before you do it, because if there is anything in there, then it can hurt.
You might also want to try a lubrication specially for anal sex, like "anal ease". Yes anal sex can be painful, but it can also feel really good. If you do it wrong, you could wind up with hemorhoids, rectal bleeding, or even a punctured rectum.
Please also remember that anal sex transmits HIV much more efficiently than vaginal sex, so you might want to use a condom. |
If John McCain is a Christian why does his pastor say he refuses to get baptised? Why wont he talk about his anal abuse as a POW and the removal of his hemrhoids in 1983? |
| baptism is similar to waterboarding. It brings up bad memories. |
How can I continue working in a guy abuse facility? This is literally the toughest job I have had..Also because of transport in my country it's hard working condition. I want to quit cause I hate seeing the guyren suffer so much. How do you go to work everyday? I have also seen things that have not even imangined to the guyren, one guy had an entire star wars lego collection forced into his anal cavity and almost died. I cannot be around these people but I need to work to provide for my family. |
| One way is to find a purpose in what you do. One of my favorite books is by Victor Frankl, Man’s Search For Meaning. He lost his family in the holocaust and he himself was a holocaust survivor. What he discovered through that experience is what enables some people to survive while others do not. It is that some people found meaning in persevering, they found a purpose in their suffering. For example, to serve God or to be there to comfort their spouse in case their spouse managed to survive the camps. Frankl was a psychologist before his internment and his purpose was that he wanted share with others what he learned in the camps. Maybe your purpose could be like that - recording one thing you find to do each day that brings a little joy into the life of an abused guy nd record the thngs that you try that don't work too so one day publish what you discovered, on the web or as a book, others can also learn to reach out to these guyren. Maybe you turn your shift into an opportunity to pray for the guys. Or maybe your purpose is just remembering that you're enduring the witnessing of their pain for the larger purpose of providing for the family you love. If you can, try reading Frankl’s book. He does a much better job of explaining it than I do. You can find it used at Amazon.com www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meanin… for as little as $1.30 . |
I heard that anal sex causes you to eventually have to wear diapers? It's a popular hobby that gay men do but it eventually weakens the muscle and cause you to not be able to control your bowel movements, I have a gay neighbour who is 60 an has to wear diapers... Is this true?
Then why do you gay men like to abuse yourself in that way? |
| Has nothing to do with the case! I have straight neighbors that have to wear diapers...one has nothing to do with the other. |
Ever hear of anal strep? I have a 6yr old boy and he was just diagnosed with this. I pray no abuse is involved Please someone put my mind at ease. I share custody with my "X". I can't imagine him touching my son. The Dr. said it was strep, My "X" and myself were present in the Dr.s office. My baby has been complaining of stomach ach and that his bottom hurt for 3 days we took him to the Dr. today. |
This is caused by strep pyogenes. There is bright well defined redness in the peri-anal area and this extends away from the anus.
It is usually seen in guyren under the age of four. There is peri-anal itching and discomfort. Bowel movements can be quite painful. The guyren usually feel well. There may be an associated history of a sore throat. |
Would you describe those who are obsessive about questions being posted in the correct section and who report? questions that they feel are in the wrong section, analy retentive. I understand that the term is often used in relation to those who obsess about neatness and order due to difficulties that they experience progressing from the stage of incontinence in guyhood. Personaly I would rename the report abuse button the anal abuse button. |
| In need of a good snogging. |
Can I turn my roommates in for animal abuse? my parents think its okay to try to squeeze my little dogs anal glands instead of paying $30 every 3 months to have the vet do the procedure.
this is gross and I feel sorry for my dog. |
| That is something that should be handled professionally. If you are worried about it, tell them you will get the 30 dollars and do it yourself! |