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My boyfriend's brothers wife thinks she's better than me, and so does his family. Help how do I deal? My boyfriends brother has been married for a few years now and the moment his Mom & Dad met the wife they fell head over heels for her. She is the spitting image of my boyfriends Mom (petite, blonde) and acts completely perfect in front of them, which I feel is an act and it bothers me so much. His brother & wife live in california, and the rest of the Fam lives in NY including us (within a few mins from each other). Even though we are 3000 miles away from them, their lives are the constant center of attention and my BF's family is always talking about how great they are. I realize that is their son and they miss him, but believe me they go overboard. Their entire living room is COVERED in their wedding pics & pics of the baby. Still.. not a big issue, they love them. However, I feel competely inferior to this little "Club" they have going on. I feel my BF's Mom does not believe I am good enough for him, because I'm not tiny and blonde (I have a great body and I'm brunette, not at all homely I just don't look like THEM lol). His parents are always nice to me when I am there and welcoming, but when they are visiting from Cali I rarely get acknowledged or spoken too. We recently went on vacation all together and his Mom & brothers wife were all buddy buddy the whole time, and they RARELY included me in any conversation. The three of us made plans to go see a psychic for fun, and a week later the two of them went by themselves... never asked me or called me or anything.They even had the audacity to talk about how fun it was in front of me at dinner a few days later. I never said a word about anything but it felt like a stab in the heart. I don't expect them to worship me but it would be nice to get treated equally. Right now the brothers wife & I are both expecting. She is due 3 months before me. They were MUCH more excited about her pregnancy than mine. I know in my heart they were slightly dissappointed, not matter what my BF tells me. I have this feeling that they are always going to heavily favor his brothers 2 guys and not be as excited about our baby. I have never done anything to make these people not like me, but the way I get treated compared to his older brothers wife is vastly different. I don't think it's because they have known her longer... I think even when my BF and I get married (in July 2010) they will still favor his brothers "perfect" little family. Please, some advice on how I should think/feel/act..ect? | | .You should get married now,before the birth of your baby. That may be part of the resentment.Having a guy out of wedlock.Still they are acting very clannish and boorish.lt is natural though to favor an absent son over an attendant one.How does your bf relate to these goings on?. | My wife is always talking up her co-worker? My wife is a teacher, and she works with a woman who is pretty, petite, and blonde. She talks about her all of the time: how attractive she is, how nice she is, etc. The other night in bed, she was dreaming and calling out this woman's name very sexily and rubbing herself. Do I have cause to worry? | | Your wife might be going through a girl crush.... She is probably just a little bi curious...... Let it go... It's just a phase. Good luck | Do you still kiss your wife? I have been with my husband 20 yrs and he rarely kisses me. He allows me to kiss him on his cheek but that's it.
As a romantic I find this hurtful so is this normal or am I missing out on something?
he only kissed me in the start of our relationship because it's what I wanted he says.
I am still an attractive petite blonde in my 30's that gets attention from men so its not about my looks. If you ever saw 'allo allo' he's like the bloke in that 'you may kiss me'. Is this normal? | I would love to kiss my wife more than she lets me!
We do kiss goodbye and good morning and goodnight (a handful of kisses each time) so at the minimum I kiss my wife around 20 times a day!
I would enjoy "making out" with her every night at bedtime! I think she assumes it has to move on to sex if we "make out" so she pushes me away after a handful of kisses!
I LOVE kissing! | Ladies what color panties do you think I should buy my wife..??? She is 24 curly Blonde hair brown eyes...summer tan..petite girl next door type of hottie..it is for her birthday...she says how come you never buy me underwear ...and she says she buys my underwear..so I think well good point..so how do I have fun with this....??? | Well with blonde hair, she would prob look good in a pink thong with little diamonds or something.
Black is a good color, with cherrys on it.
just dont pick these colors:
throw up green,
ocean blue
and heres some underwear to NOT buy her:
granny panties
and if your gunna buy her a thong or a g-string, you need to kno how to shop for it. in regular underwear, find out her underwear size, and then when you go shopping for a g-string or thong, go 1 size down.
if she is a size 6 in regulars
then shop for a size 5 in thongs. | Could it be that I have entered a state of depression because I lost my Side Hunny (SH)? In the past year, I had a lot of transition and moved from Backwater to Ramapo, hundreds of miles North. Anyhoo, this was almost a year ago and I left behind a Side Hunny (SH), petite, blonde, etc.
So I moved with the wife and guy to Ramapo and started a new Marriage Psychic business, which is doing well. I told the wife about past indiscretions with SH and, after some turmoil, we moved on, and I thought about SH less and less.
Though all of a sudden, I've entered a sort of depression and am thinking about SH a good deal.
I mean, it's been awhile. What could have triggered that? | I don't know if you miss SH so much as something she represented - something she was part of , but not the whole. Even though your business is successful, you might feel you left some lost opportunity behind, some hopes and dreams that you don't see happening in Ramapo. If you think about it hard enough, I'm sure you will figure out what may have caused you to enter a state of depression. Here are some questions you might ask yourself: Are you bored with life in Ramapo as compared to Backwater or is it something deeper? Are you bored and dissatisfied with what your life has become? Are you disappointed in your marriage? How do you feel about your wife? Did you have a stronger connection with SH? Was she easier to talk to and did she understand you better? Have you tried everything to improve your relationship with you wife and it just isn't there?
Maybe getting away by yourself would help. Too bad you can't go back to Backwater for a while and see if you can figure out what it is. You seem like a Marriage Psychic in need of a Marriage Psychic. | Okay, so heres my deal. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we have always had a great ? relationship. I do not believe I could have found a more loving and loyal man anywhere. His parents are very nice and I have never had any problems with them, however I have always felt that truely deep down they think he could have done better than me. I'm a pretty brunette with a nice body, but I feel like his Mom has guidelines for how her sons (She has 3) girlfriends should look and act. His brothers wife is the spitting image of their mother. Very petite & blonde. I feel as if his Mom & Dad favor his brothers wife a great deal. She is seemingly the perfect person and I think she acts very fake around them, completely not herself and it really bothers me. I'm not the type of person to act a certain way to impress people, I just want them to love me for me. Her & I both just recently found out we were pregnant, she is a few months ahead of me. His parents were much more excited about her pregnancy than mine, even though we are planning to get married July 2010 and we are definitely willing and able to care for a guy (I'm 25, he's 28 so it's not like we are too young.) His brother & wife already have one son and he is the absolute favorite and my boyfriends parents basically are obsessed with them & their little family. Somehow I don't believe they feel that way about me, and I have a hard time believing that they are not going to still favor the first 2 grandguyren (she is having a girl, I don't know yet about mine.) and not love our guy as much. I don't know if this is something I just came up with in my head (hormones, ugh!) or if it's a reality. They absolutely do not treat us equally. On a family vacation recently, his Mom & brothers wife were all friendly and never left each others side and rarely spoke to me ; they were too busy with the little one my boyfriend explained. They also made plans to go see a psychic and originally invited me. A week later they both went to the psychic, I didn't know anything about it and they never called or asked me to go. They even talked about it in front of me at dinner a few days later. What should I make of this situation and how should I act??? It's really been bothering me and stressing me out. It's actually creating animosity in me towards the whole family and I never want to go over there and spend time with them when my boyfriend does. Someone help if you have been in this situation or have any advice!!!! I don't know what to think, feel, say, ect.
-left out | | Your not even married and you are showing resentment?? maybe they aren't to happy that you are not married and pregnant? maybe they like the phony act? but I don't know that I would be getting into a family I already had resentment with.The favoritism is not to nice I can see your point but there isn't to much you can do about it other than exclude yourself from things in a nice way.With both of you being pregnant at the same time it is like a competition and she will win I'm afraid. Once your baby is born things may change- babies seem to have that effect on families.Good luck and try not to get to upset part of it is your hormones, try not to make mountains out of mole hills. | GUYS: Do you like when your gf/wife wears lingerie?? I'm petite. 5'4 ish. 115 lbs. tanned. blonde hair. I bought an outfit but haven't worn it yet... I don't know if he would be into it.. I don't want to feel dumb. | | Ask him. Be like, I say this outfit and wondered what you think. If he's like um, ok and kinda weirded out then don't get it. If he seems excited about it, then wear it!! Hehe. | Does this guy just like me for shallow reasons? I met this guy a while ago who's 19, I'm 16( i'll be 17 in a month,legal where I am). he's going to art school and he's a very talented painter and photographer, and is already becoming famous.
we got along really well and are becoming really really close...however i just found out indirectly that he wants to date and marry a pretty & petite blonde russian/polish/ukrainian girl . I'm russian and blonde and etc. That no one else is good enough to be his "wife". He's also into polygamy apparently. He wants a wife but wants to be free to sleep with every other woman he wishes.
He hasn't told me any of this straight to my face, but there is proof he says all this in a video and written on a journal page..
I don't know if he even likes me now except for those reasons. Also the polygamy freaks me out..he's free spirited and i like that, but its dangerous emotionally and physically for me (STDS). Should i cut back on being with him or just try and see if he'll be honest with me? I really don't want to be used and hurt for something so stupid.
i really thought I found someone who understood me and now i feel like its all just him trying to get a russian to satisfy his russian fetish.
:( | forget him he sounds like a loser.
He wants to marry a russian girl and then have sex with loads of other women? why do you want to be involved with someone like that?
Alot of men like Russians, alot of men actually BUY russian brides. I think they might have a reputation for being beautiful but also letting men walk all over them or something. Don't let this happen to you. | I found a strange address in my newely weds car for some reason my instnct told me to go there it was an apt? complex.When I knocked on the door a small petite blonde answered the door and the whole place smelled of pot I asked if I had "Melanie's house"and she said No!I asked my husband whose address that was and he told me he was buying a vase from craigslist.I don not believe him at all, i ended up hiring a PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR who is following him and he installed a program that I can receive his info to my email We got into a HUGE fight and he pushed me down the stairs he is takng steroids b/c he has a hormonal inblance and I blame the steroids!the day we got into that huge fight He was on over 200 porn sights and chat sight.I am so worried how to confront him b/c he is so secreative!It is so hard b/c I have my guys involved from a previous marriage and he does not want any guys He is handsome,professional,fun,funny,but I feel he always wants attention all the time!I am pretty conservative:I am not saying in bed,but in general I am 5 years older then him and I feel he uses me as a Mother figure "HOT WIFE "His mom has attention issues,been married 3 times and His sister is a liar.She lies about everything and both his mom and sister never see wrong in him.Recently he was wrapping gifts and he only put his name on the gift I asked him why and he said ,"I am sorry I am on Robot mode"I am afraid he is either cheating,selling or buying drugs b/c he is a pharmacist and he never wants to get a checking avvount together HE IS SO SELFISH and its hard for me B/C I have reasons to go ,but I do not know what to do i love him,but I need help how to confront him b/c I am afraid he may go pcycho on me THE PI is still on his tail,but nothing yet.HELP DESPERATE | | Get a Taser and teach him some manners. | Why would he lie about what his ex-wife looks like? He told me they were best friends but it didn't work out between them. Said she is a beautiful, american blonde model type. In reality, she is a lovely, petite, brunette from his culture. I don't know if it is necessary to give any more details. They were married for approx.4 yrs. I don't know if she cheated on him during her actress/modeling career persuits, but he seems to be living in some sort of denial. They have been divorced for about the same amount of years they were married.
Any thoughts on why he would paint her to be someone else entirely? | | Wishful thinking ! |
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